When Sophie Gets Angry, Really, Really Angry
Feelings & Empathy

When Sophie Gets Angry, Really, Really Angry

Molly Bang· Published 1999

Sophie learns to cope with anger by taking time in nature to calm down.

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Why It's On Our Shelf

The illustrations in this book show anger building visually - Sophie literally turns red and looks like she might explode. It's an accurate representation of how anger feels to kids. What's smart is that Sophie doesn't suppress her anger or get punished for it - she removes herself from the situation and lets it pass. The scene where she climbs the tree and calms down shows an actual coping strategy, not just 'be nice.' The book respects that anger is real and valid while showing that there are ways to handle it that don't hurt people. It's become a classic for teaching emotional regulation because it gets the psychology right.

Why It Works

1

Anger is Natural

Validates that feeling angry is normal and not something to be ashamed of, reducing emotional suppression.

2

Self-Regulation Strategy

Shows a concrete coping mechanism (removing yourself, spending time in nature) that children can actually use.

3

Emotions Pass

Demonstrates that intense feelings eventually calm down if you give them time and space.

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